Ritual VI |
We continuously strive towards self-actualization, seeking knowledge on our path to act & respond ethically & responsibly in all things.
Once you have become comfortable regularly working on Ritual V with mindfulness and introspection, you can then
begin to add Ritual VI to your practice. Ritual VI is another part of the "maintenance ritual" which is designed
to be a continual process to further enhance your practice. The goal is to stay connected to the work we have
accomplished in all the previous Rituals, and to strive to live by the Seven Tenets . The time working on this
Ritual may be challenging since there may be a lot of emotional weight that needs to be addressed. It is important
for us to check in with ourselves regularly to reflect on how we are feeling and what actions we have been taking.
Process:
After completing your meditation practice, reflect on the Seven Tenets and answer these questions in your Recovery Tome. This should accompany your regular gratitude list and meditation from Ritual V.
- One should strive to act with compassion and empathy toward all creatures in accordance with reason.
- Have I acted with compassion towards myself today?
- Have I acted compassionately towards others today?
- The struggle for justice is an ongoing and necessary pursuit that should prevail over laws and institutions.
- Have I continued to strive for justice against my adversary of addiction? What actions have I taken today to stay on track?
- How many days have I been sober? Remember each new day is a triumph and should be celebrated!
- One's body is inviolable, subject to one's own will alone.
- Have I been living the way I want to by taking actions towards self-improvement and my own goals? (Use your vision board from Ritual V as guidance.)
- The freedoms of others should be respected, including the freedom to offend. To willfully and unjustly encroach upon the freedoms of another is to forgo one's own.
- Have I respected the freedom of others today even if I found it disagreeable? Have I encroached upon the freedoms of another? Have I allowed someone else to encroach upon my freedoms?
- Beliefs should conform to one's best scientific understanding of the world. One should take care never to distort scientific facts to fit one's beliefs.
- Are my beliefs towards myself and others rational right now? Am I holding on to distorted irrational beliefs/fears? (You can look over the process from Ritual III for guidance.)
- People are fallible. If one makes a mistake, one should do one's best to rectify it and resolve any harm that might have been caused.
Working on Tenet VI will likely be a larger task the first time you do it. When looking over Ritual III, we may have caused a lot of harm in our past. As we continue living in accordance with the Seven Tenets and Seven Rituals this list will naturally get smaller, and taking responsibility for our actions will slowly become second nature. We shouldn't expect to be able to go back and fix every mistake that we have ever made or to hunt down every person from our past. It is important, however, for us to live free from shame and guilt from our past and for us to take responsibility for our actions. We should do our best to rectify and resolve any harm that has been done to people that we care about who are in reach. If there is someone from your past that you have harmed that you cannot get in touch with anymore, or it may cause more harm to yourself or others to engage with that person, the best thing to do is to simply strive to learn from those mistakes and work on self-improvement. You may not be ready to work towards rectifying all of your past harmful actions, and that is ok. Just start with one at a time. Remember, this isn't about seeking approval from others. Sometimes some damages cannot be repaired or someone doesn't want to accept your apology. What's important is you did what you could and you no longer have to live with any of that accumulated guilt. This is about personal growth and progress, not perfection. Use your best judgement and discuss each one with an Ally in recovery. Your Ally can help you decide what the healthy choice is if you are unsure.- Have I made a mistake that has caused harm? What actions can I take to best rectify and resolve any harm that has been caused?
- Am I harboring any resentments? Can I recognize that everyone is fallible and not let someone else's actions control my life today?
- After answering the questions for Tenets I-VI, say Tenet VII to yourself. Every tenet is a guiding principle designed to inspire nobility in action and thought. The spirit of compassion, wisdom, and justice should always prevail over the written or spoken word.
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